Recovery Planning
Exercise No. 25: Relapse Prevention Strategies
Purpose. The purpose of this exercise is to pull together
a set of personal relapse prevention strategies for each personal
high-risk situation identified. The patient develops one card
for each high-risk situation. The patient will have four cards
if he or she identified four high-risk situations, but some patients
may want to develop more cards. The patient starts off each day
reading the cards and also carries the cards around. This exercise
builds on the situations identified in Exercise No. 24, as well
as on insights gained in the group process.
Instructions. The patient makes four copies of the exercise
to fill out, one for each worksheet completed in Exercise No.
24. The patient also transfers information from the exercise onto
cards that are carried around with the patient. Patients may fill
out more than four worksheets and four cards if they wish.
Exercise No. 26: Daily Recovery Plan
Purpose. In this exercise, the patient starts to fill out
a daily recovery plan based on what he or she has learned. The
purpose of this exercise is to put into action all of the information
patients have learned from the previous exercises.
Instructions. Between group sessions, the patient should
fill out a daily recovery plan for each day. He or she should
review with the group what is working well as part of recovery,
and what is not. The group should give feedback on the plan and
suggestions to make it work better. (This exercise and Exercise
No. 27 should be done simultaneously.)
Exercise No. 27: Evening Inventory Sheet
Purpose. This exercise has the patient fill out an evening
inventory sheet reviewing what he or she has learned each day.
The purpose of this is to put this information into action.
Instructions. The patient should fill out an evening inventory
sheet for each day between group sessions. He or she should review
with the group which strategies are working and which are not.
The group should give feedback on the strategies and suggestions
to make them work better.
Concluding Remarks
When a patient completes the workbook (see the appendix), a closure
ceremony should be held as part of a regular group session. During
the ceremony all the group members tell the patient how they felt
when they first met him or her, how they feel now, and what they
wish for him or her in the future. The patient then tells the
group members the same. The patient should be encouraged to continue
to attend AA or NA and a relapse prevention self-help group.
Each time you work with a patient as a counselor, you will learn
more. Every patient after that will be helped by what you have
learned. Working with recovering patients can be both frustrating
and rewarding. The authors hope that you will grow in your desire
and ability to help people recover. Every time you help a person
in recovery, you help yourself in some way, too.
As you read these materials, it is hoped that you will see more
ways that you can use them. After you become comfortable with
the information and techniques, reach out and try new things with
this material. Read whatever you can and apply it. Get input and
supervision from professionals, if you can do it. You may decide
because of your experience that this is something you want to
do professionally. If so, look into further education in addiction
and general counseling. Everything you learn will help you, and
potentially others.
Definitions
There are a number of words that are used in this manual and in
the accompanying patient workbook that you may not be familiar
with or that have different meanings than you are used to. The
following is a list of terms and definitions as they are used
in this publication.
Abstain or Abstinence: To not use any mood-altering substance,
including alcohol and drugs.
Addiction: A physical dependence on a drug (alcohol, drugs,
nicotine, and caffeine) that is marked by an increased intake,
continued use despite consequences, and in many cases, physical
withdrawal when use of the drug is discontinued.
Alcoholics Anonymous: An organization of recovering alcoholics
who work together to help themselves and others recover from alcoholism.
Awfulizing Sobriety: The belief that living without alcohol
or drugs is worse than suffering the consequences of using.
Belief: An idea that a person has about himself or herself
and the world, whether it is true or not.
Bio/Psycho/Social: Having to do with the biological or
the body, the psychological or the mind, and the social or interactions
among people.
Chemical dependency: The same as addiction.
Compulsion: An overwhelming urge to take a certain action
despite possible bad consequences.
Core addictive issues: Problems resulting from the period
of addictive use that cause problems in sobriety. These include
the inability to separate from friends who use, and a lack of
acceptance of the need to abstain.
Core psychological issues: Problems resulting from beliefs
formed in childhood that continue even though they are no longer
true. These beliefs cause a person to act in a self-defeating
manner.
Counseling: The process of helping a person understand
his or her patterns of thinking, feeling, and acting, and helping
that person to make conscious choices to change.
Craving: A powerful physical desire that demands satisfaction.
Detoxification: The process of safely stopping all alcohol
and drug use when a person is physically addicted. This may be
done by using other drugs and/or by helping the person through
social support.
Dysfunctional: Unable to function in a normal manner.
Euphoric recall: The memories of using alcohol and drugs
that are associated with pleasant experiences, even if these happened
a long time ago.
Feeling: 1. An emotion, such as anger, sadness, or frustration.
2. A body sensation, such as tenseness, stiff neck, or knotted
stomach.
Injunction: A mistaken belief in the form of a negative
statement to oneself. Injunctions are often not conscious. Example.
I can't let myself cry or show my feelings because men don't cry.
Irrational thoughts: Thoughts that do not make sense to
a healthy person.
Magical thinking: The belief that alcohol and drugs can
help a person do something he or she cannot do without them.
Mandate: A mistaken belief in the form of a compelling
statement to oneself. Mandates are often not conscious. Example.
I must be in control at all times.
Mistaken belief: An incorrect belief learned in childhood
or because of a particular situation that a person continues to
believe even though it is not true. This causes the person to
feel and act in a way that is inappropriate to the current situation.
Narcotics Anonymous: An organization of recovering drug
addicts who work together to help themselves and others recover
from addiction.
Obsession: A thought (usually about alcohol or drugs) that
a person has over and over again despite efforts to stop it.
Recovery: The process of rehabilitation that begins with
abstaining from alcohol and drugs and continues with changing
thoughts, feelings, and actions, which results in major lifestyle
and value changes.
Relapse: A series of internal and external events after
starting a recovery program that cause a person to collapse physically
and/or mentally, return to using alcohol or drugs, or commit suicide.
Relapse justification: A particular thought that a person
has to make it okay to return to using alcohol or drugs after
starting a recovery program. Example. My life is so miserable
anyway, I might as well use.
Relapse prevention: The counseling process that helps a
person to identify and change thoughts, feelings, and actions
that lead him or her back to active chemical dependency.
Relapse warning signs: A series of thoughts, feelings,
and actions triggered by a situation or condition that lead from
stable recovery back to alcohol or drug use.
Self-defeating behavior: A behavior that a person uses
that causes him or her to be worse off than before. Even though
the person doesn't like the result, he or she continues the behavior.
Thought: 1. A talk that a person has with himself or herself.
2. A picture or visualization that forms in a person's mind.
Unmanageable feeling: A feeling that a person does not
want to have or pretends not to have until the feeling causes
a negative reaction.
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Appendix of TAP 19: Counselor's Manual for Relapse Prevention With Chemically Dependent Criminal Offenders
Relapse Prevention Workbook for Chemically Dependent
Criminal Offenders
Introduction
If you are reading this workbook, you probably have had trouble
with alcohol or drugs and have gotten into trouble with the law.
Many people who have trouble with alcohol and drugs don't believe
it is a problem for them. You may not believe it is a problem
for you.
The purpose of this workbook is to find out if you have a problem
with alcohol or drugs and how this connects with your problems
with the law. If you can understand how the two are connected,
you may be able to prevent problems from happening again.
Problems with the law usually occur for one or both of the following
reasons.
- The way you think gets you into trouble
- You have an alcohol or drug problem that gets you in trouble.
Some people know they have an alcohol or drug problem. They want
to stop using, but they haven't been able to. These people are
called chemically dependent. This workbook is designed to help
you if you have a problem with alcohol or drugs and the law, whether
or not you believe you are chemically dependent.
One thing you probably want to do is to resolve your problems
with the law. In order for that to happen, you must be willing
to do several things.
- Consider that you might have a problem with alcohol and/or
drugs. If alcohol and drugs get you into trouble with the
law, your family, or your job, it is likely that you are chemically
dependent. If this is true, the only way you can resolve these
problems is to stop using alcohol and drugs. This may not be easy,
but you can do it if you will accept help.
- Consider that your thinking might be wrong on some issues.
If your thinking is wrong, it can cause you to act in ways that
get you into trouble. It can cause you to feel like you don't
fit in, prevent you from getting what you want out of life, and
cause you to not get along with other people. When this happens,
the only way you know how to feel good is to try to fool or "con"
other people.
- Decide that you can change your life. No matter how
much people try to help you, you must be willing to believe that
you can make your life better if you do certain things. You must
be willing to look honestly at your life and want to change. If
you are willing to do this, you can make your life different.
This workbook can help you.
Section I: What Are My Problems?
The first section of this workbook has two self-tests. If you
are honest when you answer the questions, you will find out
- If you are chemically dependent (can't stop using alcohol
and drugs without help). By finding out whether you are chemically
dependent, you can make decisions that will change your future.
- If your personality is like that of other offenders.
You will see evidence of these similarities in your life. Your
personality is made up of the way you think, feel, and act. These
questions will help you to decide if you want to change your personality.
Understanding your problems is important in getting where you
want to go. It is all right if you don't like what you find, but
if you want to change, you must accept that you have problems.
To get where you want to go, you have to be honest about where
you are. It is like the man who called somebody to ask directions
to get to his house. He didn't want to tell the person where he
was at the time because he didn't want him to know, so he told
him he was somewhere else. Of course, the directions he received
were useless to him.
Section II: How Did I Get Here?
The second section of this workbook will help you understand how
you have gotten into trouble in the past. By understanding your
past thoughts, feelings, and actions, you can understand what
will happen in the future unless you change. This section will
show you what you have to change.
This section will also help you to understand your thinking, feeling,
and ways of acting that caused you to use alcohol or drugs or
break the law. It will help you understand how one thing leads
to the other.
Sections III, IV, and V: How To Change
The final three sections of this workbook teach you how to change
your thoughts, feelings, and ways of acting that have gotten you
into trouble in the past. They will show you how to make a plan
that you can use on a daily basis to change your life for the
better.
This workbook alone will not change your life. You must also use
other forms of help. You can change your life for the better if
you are willing to do several things.
- Not Use Alcohol or Drugs. The first thing you must
do is be willing to stop using alcohol and drugs. Recovery from
chemical dependency must begin with abstinence. There is help
available to do this.
- Attend Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) or Narcotics Anonymous
(NA) Meetings. The best place to find out how to recover is
somewhere you can be with people who have been in the same situation
as you. You should attend as many meetings as possible. The more
you talk with recovering people, the more you can learn from them.
When you go to meetings, listen to what people say. Ask yourself,
"How am I like these people?" "How did they change?"
"What things did they do that I can try?" Ask someone
to be your sponsor. A sponsor is a person whom you respect who
has been sober for quite a while. This is someone you can talk
to on a one-on-one basis. He or she can help you by listening
and sharing his or her own experiences.
When you speak at these meetings, be as honest as you can. You
will get more help if you tell people how you really think and
feel than if you try to impress them. Read as many of the AA or
NA books as possible. The more you read about recovery, the more
your thinking will change. When your thinking changes, you will
start to feel and act differently.
- Get Counseling. Go to one-on-one counseling sessions
at least once a week, and more often if you can. Counseling will
help you work on issues that may cause problems in recovery.
- Read This Workbook. By reading and doing the exercises
in this workbook, you will have a better chance of recovery and
less chance of relapse. Follow the instructions very carefully.
Sometimes it will seem as if you are doing the same thing over
and over again. This repetition forces you to see certain things
again and again so you will remember them. Many times the instructions
will have you copy answers from previous exercises. This is to
help you understand how all of the exercises and all the things
in the exercises and in your life work together.
Sometimes you won't understand why you are doing a certain thing.
The reason will become clearer as you move on. Sometimes you may
get angry and frustrated. Sometimes you will want to quit. This
is normal. Quit for a while, but then try again later. People
who do not quit are more likely to recover.
Try to work in the workbook for 1 or 2 hours, once or twice a
day. There is plenty of space available for each answer. You do
not have to fill in every line for every question.
If you have trouble reading this workbook or understanding it,
ask for help. It may not be easy, but learning how to ask for
help is one of the things you must do to recover.
Most of all, you must put your work into action. It is only by
working on changing that we will change and our lives will get
better. It can happen to you if you try.
We know of a man who spent over half of his life in reform schools
and prisons. He finished high school in prison but had no further
education. He began attending AA in prison, and got out of prison
at age 35. He worked very hard at his recovery. Today, he has
two college degrees, is married and has a family, and works as
a counselor with inmates. He has been sober for over 10 years.
You can change your life too. But, you must understand that it
will take time and hard work.
The "Big Book" is the "school book" of AA
that shows you how to recover. It uses the letters H-O-W to explain
how to recover. This workbook will work for you in the same way.
HonestyThis means being totally honest about how you
think, feel, and act. Unless you are willing to be honest, you
cannot make progress.
Open-mindednessYou must be willing to think that you
may be wrong about some things. Unless you can do this, you cannot
change. If you do not change, the same things will keep happening
to you.
WillingnessYou must be willing to try difficult things
that you do not like and that sometimes hurt at first. The easiest
thing for you to do is what you have always done. The hardest
thing to do is change. But you can do it if you work on changing
day by day. If you change a little each day, in the end you will
be a different person.
Section I: What Are My Problems?
This first section contains two tests. (1) the Alcohol and Drug
Addiction Test and (2) the Offender Personality Self-Test. Completing
each test will help you to understand yourself better and begin
to change.
Alcohol and Drug Addiction Test
Purpose. This test describes things that happen to people
who are addicted to alcohol or drugs. By taking this test, you
will be able to determine if you are addicted and, if so, how
serious your addiction is. To be addicted means that you cannot
stop using alcohol or drugs without help. This test was adopted
from the Jellinek Chart for Addiction. The following problems
do not happen to people who are not addicted.
Instructions. Read each question and think back over your
life. If this has ever happened to you, make a check mark in the
left column (yes). If this has never happened to you, make
a check mark in the right column (no). When you are finished,
see the scoring sheet at the end of the test.